Mommy mommy, where did the sperm come from?
Friday January 29, 2010 8:45 PM  Here we go again, another man-hating leftie has recycled old data to try and convince all of us that Dads aren't necessary in the lives of children and that two mommies are just as good.
The evidence that they are using to make their case is that there is not concrete or consistent evidence that demonstrates being raised in a lesbian home will adversely impact children.
There was no study done in regards to gay men having kids and I don't think that is an accident and for two reasons. If they were to discover there were adverse affects, that would be a major blow to the gay movement and would most likely cause more states to ban gay adoption. Furthermore if the study concluded that Moms weren't necessary for the healthy rearing of children this would kill the liberals on two fronts. It would be a major victory for men's advocates that have been pushing for fairer treatment of Dad's in divorce proceedings and would hurt the double standard that promotes single mothers or feminist minded women who think it's cool to have a kid from an anonymous sperm donor.
Over the last 20 years there have been many studies done in this area and they have been able to find some patterns among children raised by lesbians and they make sense. The American Academy of Pediatrics noted that in one study, parents and teachers described kids of lesbians as "more affectionate, responsive, and protective" and less "bossy, negative, and domineering" than kids of straight parents.
This was their way of promoting their liberal agenda but I read these results differently. What I see is a bunch of kids acting completely with feminine energy and lacking the natural polarity that comes from experiencing a Father in the home.
The author of this latest study, Judith Stacey, a professor of sociology and of social and cultural analysis at New York University says that the traditional family lobby has been gathering their data with a stacked deck because they are comparing two parent, mom and dad homes against single mothers and that if you compare the results of two parents of the same gender that there is not difference in the result.
Her evidence was based on parental consistency, nurturance, communication, structure, scheduling, stability, conflict and abuse. What they did not study is the ability of children to interact with opposite sex partners in intimate relationships. I suspect that they would find these kids to be confused about their roles in their relationship and that they would have difficulty balancing the needs of their opposite sex partner with their same sex socialization since men and women are different.
What the feminists and the gay movement refuse to acknowledge is a little thing called nature. They scoff at morality and tradition but they fail to explain why nature requires both men and women for procreation barring a Petri dish and a laboratory. Why is it that nature requires a man but the second that the child leaves the womb, dad isn't necessary anymore?
Homosexuality is part of the human condition but not every condition is right for every circumstance. This is not to say that gay couples can't serve as role models for children. There are many circumstances where children would benefit from the stability of a loving home without chaos and violence and many gay couples provide this for hard to place children everyday. But to intentionally bring a child into the world without a father is selfish and denies the child the opportunity to learn first hand about the male female dynamic.
The other danger of this study is the ignorant promotion of the idea that Dad doesn't matter. Why wouldn't these finding translate to the straight community? If Dad isn't necessary in the gay world why would he be necessary in the straight world? If you need that answer all you have to do is visit your local prison.
We have a shortage of men these days because of the divorce culture and feminism gone insane. This has resulted in a generation of immature males that live with mommy till they are 35, have no concept of chivalry, can't hold down a job and expect their wives to bring home the bacon.
Promoting the idea that masculine influence is not necessary for the healthy upbringing of human beings is to doom our country to another generation of feminized boys, prancing around in skinny jeans, lost as to their role and responsibility in the lives of their children and society.
Stay Sharp!
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