I'll Pass
Wednesday December 09, 2009 1:46 AM ShowCase #1Facebook status updates and road rage are your biggest hobbies.You don't learn from affliction, you wear it on your back.You take pride in being "dialed in." Where there's a mirror around you always find your reflection in it.
ShowCase #2You wear arrogance like a Jersey club hopper wears cologne; you're drowning in it like a flood. When you talk you like the sound of your own voice so much you're the only one listening.You keep all women on a babe-name basis.Nothing can be left to yo... Login to read more »
1 Comments on "I'll Pass" Ben says: Sounds like you have been dating in LA... just a guess.
Dec 09, 2009
Deal Or No Deal
Thursday December 03, 2009 2:41 AM
The dealer seems nice enough at first. Lets you win hands for awhile. Sees you love the adrenaline of taking risks. Feeds off of your excitement.You gain a false sense of security that keeps you coming back to the same table.
The dealer is an expert; has used every move, worked every angle. They always have the upper hand and move quickly with exact precision. The best opponents challenge the dealer by mirroring their game. The weakest ones fall victim to the dirtiest play in the book.
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How Many Ex's Does It Take?
Tuesday November 24, 2009 6:09 PM
How many ex's does it take to get to the center of the wedding chapel?
A girlfriend of mine was in a relationship for well over a decade before her boyfriend decided to pull the trigger and dump her for a 'trollbag train wreck.' (** the extra strength version of a 'trashbag')
I was shocked at how quickly he rebounded with such a serious downgrade. It's one thing to have so much history and then just cut ties, but how can you replace someone who keeps the mail in order with someone who looks... Login to read more »
2 Comments on "How Many Ex's Does It Take?" Delaney says: Well fucking put Ben!
Nov 25, 2009 Ben says: The answer to your question in the title is simple, as many as it takes for you (the ladies) to mature, take responsibility for your actions, act like a respectable woman, get past all your mommy or daddy issues and actually commit yourself to finding a man with character, integrity and morals.
I wasted years with the wrong girls and it was my fault for picking them. Within a month of deciding that I was going to find a mature woman that was my age I met my wife. It really is that simple.
Nov 25, 2009
What to Expect When Not Expecting
Thursday November 19, 2009 5:30 PM
It can be easy to meet single, quality people who have no expectations. It can be hard to invest quality time and not develop feelings for that person, finding one's self expecting more but receiving less.
Why is it that appearing too interested at first can be a turn off? It starts with the little things, such as how quickly someone calls or texts. Pace setting is important to examine from the beginning. Is the attention giving/receiving at the same level?
Women typically say we're attracte... Login to read more »
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Too Much Information (TMI) - Where do you draw the line?
Tuesday November 17, 2009 5:11 PM
I have a fairly high TMI tolerance before I have to break out the ear muffs. Over the years my boundaries and thresholds have definitely changed. I know I'm experiencing TMI when I get a sick feeling in my stomach. TMI is like a pie-eating contest; Too much too quickly and bring on the nausea!
I've grown closer to some people through excessive sharing. It really depends on my comfort level and, often times, history. I don't necessarily have hard set rules on when it's too soon to share certai... Login to read more »
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